Sunday 20 April 2014

Freshie day 0

OMG i CANNOT believe 5 months of holidays have passed so fast and school is in less than 12 hours... 
Tonight i expect myself to sleep with doubts and worries yet with a tint of excitement. Hopefully i make the "right" friends this time round. Try not to be awkward and what not okay beatrice?
Here's to THREE years in poly

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Saturday 12 April 2014

It wasn't how you thought you should be

I read this some where online and it really hit me. Just wanted to share a certain part of it with all the girls out there.
"Your body is your home. It is where you belong, a place you should feel safe. It is not a temple designed so that other people seek something in it. It does not exist to for the sole purpose to be admired and praised.
If a man makes you feel like you are worth no more than your body, put your shoes back on and walk away. If he, at any point, makes you feel like your body isn’t good enough for him, he doesn’t deserve to see it, clothed or unclothed. Button up your coat and catch a train home. Don’t ever let someone put their hands on you because it’s easier than pushing them away. If a man makes you feel like you can’t say no because you’ve already said yes, slam the door on your way out and make sure he never sees you again. You are allowed to change your mind.
Your body is not a thank you card for a nice dinner. It is not a currency or a bargaining chip exchanged for love and kindness. It’s your home and yours alone, and you decide who you share it with, and how you share it with them. It is the only true home you’ll ever have. Share it with one person or many people — as long as doing so brings you joy.

You will love yourself one day, and you will be loved for yourself, too."

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